He Said She Said Bridal Shower Game 101 [Sample Questions] 2024

A bridal shower is a great time to get together with friends and family to celebrate the bride-to-be. It’s also a great opportunity to have some fun! If you’re hosting a bridal shower, why not plan some games?
The he said, she said bridal shower game is our top choice for fun games to play at your bridal shower, bachelorette party, or lingerie party.

It is a great way to get your guests laughing and having a great time!

Other variations/names for he said, she said (we cover the other games and ways to play below) are:

• The nearly-wed game (how well do I know my spouse?)
• Who said it?
• How well do you know the bride?
• How well does the groom know the bride?
• How well does the bride know the groom?

How to Play He Said, She Said (The Basic Version)

1. Someone involved with throwing the shower should sit down with the bride and groom a week or 2 before the party and record their responses to the questions/statements that you choose (many samples and ideas can be found below). This can be done via email if needed, but it is so much better when you record the couple together as they give their answers.
2. As the couple gives their responses, you make an answer key. If they agree, you choose either the bride or groom. If they disagree on who said/did what, you mark the answer as both.
3. At the party, you will pass out cards with the questions that the couple responded to (in order) and a pencil or pen for each.
4. You will read each statement to the guests.
5. They will circle either the bride, the groom, or both.
6. Once all questions/statements have been read, you will start with #1 and read the questions and then give the correct answer.
7. Guests will give themselves 1 point for each correct answer.
8. Each person adds up their points. The person with the most points wins the chosen prize (you can also have 2nd and 3rd prizes as well)

Note: We highly recommend recording the bride and groom together as they give their answers. The video responses are a huge hit with guests. At the very least you should have an audio recording of the couple giving their answers. You can display the video on tv, tablet, or computer.

Sample Questions and Statements for the He Said, She Said Bridal Shower Game

• I proposed to him/her.
• I have more patience.
• I am the one who takes care of a spider in the house.
• I am a grumpy morning person.
• I am the clumsy one.
• I’m the better driver.
• I’ll be the first one to cry at the wedding.
• I am the better dancer.
• I take the most selfies.
• I steal the covers.
• I’m the funny one.
• I’m the most likely to get lost when driving.
• I take the longer shower.
• I’m the biggest baby when I’m sick.
• I pass the most gas.
• I’m the most likely to make an impulse buy/purchase.
• I am spending more time on the wedding plans.
• I snore the loudest.
• I initiated the first kiss.
• I said “I love you” first.
• I’m the most stubborn.
• I’m better at folding laundry.
• I take up most of the bed.
• I own the most shoes.
• I’m the most romantic.
• I take charge of the remote control.
• I am the biggest flirt.
• I have the most obnoxious friends.
• I’m the best cook
• I’m the most likely to run out of gas when driving.

For even more ideas, check out wedding shoe game questions article.

How Well Does the Groom Know the Bride?

Now it’s time for the groom to show how well he knows his bride. The guests will ask the groom a series of questions about her, and he’ll have to guess what her answer will be. If you want to make this game more challenging, there are only two options: either have your guests ask only one question at a time (where they can’t ask another question until they’re sure that their first was answered correctly), or limit them to one guess per question (so if they don’t get it right away, they have no chance of getting it later on).

In addition to being a fun way to learn each other’s tastes and preferences before the wedding, this game is also a good way for everyone else in attendance at your shower party t make connections with each other by asking questions about each other that might otherwise never come up!

How to play

1. Ask the groom a series of questions to test his knowledge of the bride-to-be. You can do this via email, audio, or video. Note that audio or video responses are the most entertaining since you can hear or see the groom’s personality as he answers each question.
2. Create a numbered list of the questions and pass out cards (along with pencils or pens) to each guest at the bridal shower, bachelorette party, or lingerie party.
3. Read each question out loud and ask the bride to give her answer.
4. Have each guest write “yes” or “no” to indicate whether they think the groom will give a matching answer.
5. Play the audio or video of the groom’s response (or read it aloud if he answered via email).
6. Each guest who guessed correctly earns one point.
7. At the end of the game, each person adds up their points.
8. The guest with the highest score wins the prize. If it’s a large party, you can also award second and third place prizes.

Questions to ask the groom about the bride

• What is her biggest celebrity crush?
• Does she snore?
• What was the first thing you noticed about her?
• What is her favorite color?
• What movie or tv character matches her personality the most?
• Who is her celebrity doppelganger (lookalike)?
• What is her biggest pet peeve?
• What’s her favorite ice cream flavor?
• What is her bra size?
• What is her favorite movie?
• What is the first thing she does when she gets out of bed?
• What is her most prized possession?
• What is something that you do that annoys her the most?
• What do you think she noticed about you first?
• What makes her laugh the most?
• What is her favorite drink?
• What do you love about her the most?

Who Said It? Couple Trivia Questions

Here’s an alternative game idea for your bridal shower or party that’s easy to follow:

1. Ask the engaged couple a series of questions (see sample questions below) while recording their answers together. A phone or camera can be used to capture the Q&A session.
2. Choose the funniest or most sentimental answer to each question for the game.
3. Share the question and selected answer with the guests.
4. Challenge the guests to guess which person gave the answer.
5. Award 1 point for each correct guess.
6. Tally up the points, and the guest with the highest score wins a prize.

Let me rephrase the example using the first question from the list below:

Question: How many kids do you want?

Bride’s response: “Three.”

Groom’s response: “I’m not sure about kids, but I want two dogs.”

The groom’s answer is the clear winner due to its humor. Therefore, you would select his answer for the first question. The guests would then be challenged to guess who gave that answer.

Sample questions and funny ideas for “Who Said It?”

Here are some sample questions and funny ideas for “Who Said It?” game:

1. How many kids do you want?
2. Who takes longer to get ready in the morning?
3. Who is more likely to get lost while driving?
4. Who is the better cook?
5. Who is more likely to initiate a spontaneous adventure?
6. Who is the bigger fan of binge-watching TV shows?
7. Who is more likely to cry at a sad movie?
8. Who is the messier one in the relationship?
9. Who is more likely to forget important dates, like anniversaries or birthdays?
10. Who is the better dancer?
11. Who is more likely to win an argument?
12. Who is the better gift-giver?
13. Who is more adventurous when it comes to trying new foods?
14. Who is the better listener?
15. Who is more likely to take control in a crisis?
16. Who is the bigger fan of romantic comedies?
17. Who is more likely to be running late?
18. Who is the better kisser?
19. Who is more likely to get into a fight defending their partner?
20. Who is more likely to suggest a spontaneous road trip?

For funny ideas, you could also ask questions like “Who is more likely to start singing in public?” or “Who is more likely to accidentally break something valuable?” to add some humor to the game.

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Prizes for He Said, She Said, and Other Bridal Shower Games

Some great ideas for bridal shower game prizes include:

• Candles
• Gift baskets
• Spa treatments (a great way to support a local business)
• Gift cards
• Wine gifts
• Cozy socks

Bridal Shower Game Supplies

• Game card accessories (cardstock and mini personalized pencils)
• Game cards for the guests
• Pencils/pens
• A tv, laptop, or tablet to playback the videos of the couple.
• A portable Bluetooth speaker for music and/or audio.

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Conclusion

Congratulations! You’ve just completed the She Said He Said Bridal Shower Game. We hope you had a great time with your friends and family, and we wish the bride-to-be an amazing wedding day!